Posts made in August 20th, 2011

hating my height.


Posted on Aug 20, 2011 in Motivation

When I talk about my body here, I try to be positive. Not only do I really truly have positive feelings towards my body, but I believe positivity is contagious. If you see someone harping and nitpicking their body, you are more likely to do the same.  If you flip the script and are positive and admirational of your less-than-perfect body, those around you are more likely to see their own flaws in a positive light. It’s a positivity chain reaction that I love to participate in.

That all being said, I think, as a woman human beings, we all have insecurities, and if I didn’t talk about mine, I wouldn’t be showing you the whole truth. Because as much as I like to spew sunshine and roses, I too have negative body image sometimes. Is it rational? Absolutely not. Is it founded in fact? Not really. Is it counter-productive? Completely. But it’s a real emotion that I think a lot of people deal with daily.

So please, take this all into consideration when I say my next statement. I hate how tall I am.

It has always been something I am remarkably self-conscious about. My body is strong and all that height has afforded me some amazing things, but I can honestly say that my height is the #1 item on my “don’t like about my body” list. Really, it is silly, I’m not Guinness Book of World Record’s tall—I’m “only” 5 feet 8 1/2 inches. But that couple of extra inches above average is enough to make it to where everyone and their brother points out how Amazonian I am.

It has happened my entire life. The basketball coach takes one look at me and sticks me under the basket. The photographer eyes me up and down and positions me in the back of the group photo. Someone asks if I can reach something for them in a high cabinet.

It’s interesting, because being tall is supposed to be a sign of elegance, beauty and grace for a woman. Models are tall. Athletes are tall. Women strap on shoes specifically made to make them taller. Yet, here I am, actually this tall, and it isn’t the blissful world promised to me by the fashion magazines.

If someone would ask me to describe how tall makes me feel, it would be a pretty sad and depressing list—masculine, giant, clunky. And the list of adjectives that I feel like will never, ever apply to me are even more unfortunate—cute, small, girly, feminine, soft, delicate. The most interesting part, I actually think other tall women are beautiful. Instead of masculine, giant, and clunky, I think they look strong, elegant and impressive. So how is it that I can look at other womens’ height so positively and still put such a negative spin on my own?

It is getting better. There was a time in my life where I wouldn’t even consider a heeled shoe for fear of people incessantly pointing out how ridiculously tall I am with them on. I used to even crunch down in photographs with Babyface because I was afraid that I looked manly and out-of-proportion to my average height, average weight husband. Now, I’m not afraid to wear my 5-inch sparkly platforms and tower above Babyface. My love for a beautiful shoe won out, but I still don’t feel amazing about it.


So how do you work on feeling better about something so particular, and defining, as your height? I really would love to be able to embrace my long legs, arms and torso and feel good about having to buy long inseam pants and having to push the seat all the way back in my car. I not only want to feel comfortably in my tallness, I also want to feel proud of it. I want to get comments on my height and feel like they are compliments instead of slams. I want to love the fact that I’m too tall for mirrors in most women’s bathrooms (true story).

But I guess, for now, I’ll just work on getting comfortable with all 68 1/2 inches of me.

Have you ever felt uncomfortable with a part of your body? Did you overcome that and embrace it? If so, how?

blogging, behind the scenes: styling food for photography


Posted on Aug 20, 2011 in Career

Missed the other entries in the Blogging, Behind the Scenes series? Check them out here.

We’ve officially made it into the land of photography, my friends!

I consider my blog to be photo-centric, which means I don’t think I’ve ever had a single BTHR post without some sort of photography attached. I am a deeply visual person (that Fine Arts degree wasn’t by chance) and I think the visual of a blog or website is as important, if not more important, than the words written on the page screen. In fact, when I’m looking for blogs to add to my Google Reader, I first scroll through a few posts to see the amount of and types of photos. If there aren’t any photos (or if they are particularly bad), then I won’t read and there is no need to add the blog to my RSS reader. I know a lot of people don’t focus on photos, and that’s fine! But I’m personally a fan of the blogs that do.

So keeping in mind my love of a good photo, please excuse me if I spread the photography info out over a few different BBTS posts. I have a lot to say about this topic and I want to make sure I get it all out there. Even with multiple posts, I can guarantee these suckers are going to be long!

Also, a word of warning—I am just an amateur. I have no food styling experience or photography training. I’m just learning as I go. I actually think that’s how most bloggers are. I am fortunate enough to have a professional photographer at my beck-and-call 24/7 (hi Babyface!), but I take 99% of the photos on my blog myself without much direction from the Babyface. Although he is there to lend a shutter finger when photos need to be taken of yours truly. Self-portraits are not my strong suit.

Before I ever click the shutter, I style my food. A technically great photo means nothing if the colors, composition and food aren’t appealing. I actually think learning how to style food is more important than owning the hottest new DSLR camera or the most expensive lens. Good food styling can take you a very long way.

For the vast majority of my photos, the styling includes three parts:

  • Backdrop: the background fill of the photo frame.
  • Props: items relating to the dish that are “sprinkled” around and also the dishes and utensils.
  • The Actual Food: how the physical foodstuffs look and any garnishes.

I’ll dig into each one of these in-depth, but before I start, I want to talk a smidge about basic design principles. I’m not about to write a post with the information that cost my parents $80,000 in college tuition for me to learn, but I will say that a basic understanding of design principles helps me tremendously in styling food. Here is a nice resource for leaning the basic principles of design. While you’re at it, check out this resource for a quick and dirty rundown of combining colors.

Let’s move onto my steps.


My backdrops almost always have two elements: a base piece and an accent piece. In the past, I shot all my food on a green formica backdrop, which I thought was fun, interesting and a little bit retro. But, the green color had a really negative effect on look of some food once it was captured on the camera. So I switched to shooting on a piece of plywood painted with chalkboard paint (that Babyface made for me). The dark color helps to food really pop and doesn’t distract. Plus the chalkboard is great for listing ingredients or just having a bit of fun. Changing to a black backdrop was one of the best decisions I ever made for the quality of my photos.

The second part of the backdrop is the accent. This is where the fun comes in! I have a pretty ridiculous collection of placemats. When you just buy one at a time (as opposed to four or more like “normal” folks), it is pretty economical. Almost all of my placemats I purchased for $1 or less. I also sometimes just use a piece of fabric, but that requires ironing and that’s a lot of work.

I choose the placemat based on the colors and feeling of a dish. To determine the “feeling” of a dish, I play the adjective game. Which is where I ask myself to come up with five adjectives to describe the dish. Then, once I have those, I think about fabric that gives me the same feeling. Here are some examples:

  • Apple Pie: traditional, conservative, sweet, homey, comfortable (blue gingham fabric)
  • Salsa: spicy, exotic, colorful, fresh, summer (colorful stripe placemat)
  • Beef Stew: cozy, hearty, rich, warm, winter (dark bamboo placemat)

I layer the accent on top of the base piece and then begin the next part, the props.


I know a lot of people think long and hard about their props, but in all honesty, my props are just what I’m using to actually make and/or set up the dish. I think they make for the best and most authentic photos! For example, after I’ve scooped out a bowl of pina colada sorbet, I don’t put the ice cream scoop in the sink, I place it in the photo. And if I’m baking, I keep all the dirty measuring cups and spoons around for photo props. And if I’ve used lemon juice in the recipe, I keep my squeezed lemon half hanging around. No need to over think it. The process of cooking and serving the food always gives me plenty of props.

When it comes to the actual plates, bowls and utensils, I tend to use white dishes and silver utensils. Again, just like with the green backdrop, I feel like colorful dishes detract from the food a lot of times. The only time I don’t follow this “rule” is if the food itself is monochrome. See that pina colada sorbet up there? Painfully boring if it was just scooped into a white bowl. But the lime green bowl feels tropical and…lime-y. I do frequently put some sort of colorful dish as charger or saucer just to add some interest, but I like to keep the colorful dinnerware away from the actual food.

When it comes to utensils, I think scale is hugely important (pun intended). I think normal-sized spoons and forks actually tend to look oversized in photographs. So I use tiny ones (that I get from Crate and Barrel). Bonus, they help you take smaller bites and savor your food more slowly. :)

The Actual Food

This part was the hardest for me to get when I first started photographing food. The way you would normally eat something does not actually make for the best photography a lot of times. And styling food for a great photo, can make for uncomfortable eating. A great bowl of banana soft serve for photography is filled to the brim and dripping with delicious toppings. A great bowl of banana soft serve to eat has plenty of room for your spoon and scooping. In fact, I almost always dump my food into a larger bowl/plate/cup after photographing it.

Other than overfilling, one of the easiest ways I make my food look great in photos is to add a garnish. It is so simple and so quick, but a lot of people forget to garnish. Not only can you add visual interest and color, but you can also hint at the contents of the dish. Garnish adds variety and texture to a photograph and it also gives the camera a great focal point.

Even if I don’t do anything else, and am in a rush to get a photo, I add a touch of garnish. It can easily take a plate from hum-drum dinner to restaurant-quality with a slice of citrus, a sprig of cilantro or a drizzle of chocolate.

The last thing I always do when styling the actual food is to get messy. It seems counter intuitive, but a little bit of controlled mess can make a dish look exciting and authentic. Too neat isn’t real! I always make sure to sprinkle a little bit of garnish here and there to give it that “lived in” feel. I drizzle my sauce too wide, keep crumbs around and sprinkle on herbs too violently. And much to Puppyface’s joy, I almost always get some on the floor.

So there is my process for styling food. Sheesh, that was long. :P I’ll try to be more brief with the remainder of my photography write-ups. Next up? You’ll learn about my camera, the lighting and the lenses I use.

Do you tend to like highly styled food photography or plain and simple ones?

I’m generally somewhere in the middle, but sometimes a super simple photo is all you need (like for Nutella chocolate cake).